large, in which he collects the water with which he will wash the deceased, keeping it at a distance from him, and two small vessels; he pours from one of them onto the deceased, and uses the third to scoop from the large vessel into the small one with which he washes the deceased, so that the large one remains protected. If the water in the small one becomes spoiled, or if splashes of water fall into it, what remains in the large one will be sufficient. He whips the Sidr and washes the deceased's head and beard with its foam, and makes it reach the rest of his body, just as a living person does when performing ghusl.
Section: If he does not find Sidr, he washes him with that which serves as a substitute and is similar to it, such as al-khitmi (marshmallow plant) and the like, because the intended purpose is achieved through it. If he washes him with that while Sidr is available, it is permissible, because the Law came with this for a rational meaning, which is cleansing, and it therefore extends to everything in which that meaning is found.
338 - Issue: He said: (And he shall use gentleness with him in all his affairs).
Gentleness is recommended with the deceased when turning him, scrubbing his limbs, squeezing his abdomen, softening his joints, and in all his affairs, out of respect for him, for he is likened to the living in his sanctity. One is not secure that, if he is rough with him, a limb might become detached, which would be a mutilation of him. Indeed, the Prophet (may Allah bless him and grant him peace) said: "Breaking the bone of a deceased is like breaking the bone of the living." And he said: "Verily, Allah loves gentleness in all affairs."
(6) Al-Khitmi: A plant that ripens and softens (the skin). (1) Narrated by Abu Dawud, in: The Chapter on the Gravedigger who finds a bone, should he avoid that place?, from the Book of Funerals. Sunan Abi Dawud 2/190. And Ibn Majah, in: The Chapter on the Prohibition of breaking the bones of the deceased, from the Book of Funerals. Sunan Ibn Majah 1/516. And Imam Malik, in: The Chapter of what came regarding concealment, from the Book of Funerals. Al-Muwatta 1/238. And Imam Ahmad, in: Al-Musnad 6/58, 100, 105, 169, 200, 264. (2) Narrated by al-Bukhari, in: The Chapter of Gentleness in all affairs, from the Book of Etiquette (Adab), and in: The Chapter of How to respond to the greeting of the People of the Dhimma, from the Book of Seeking Permission, and in: The Chapter of Invoking against the Polytheists, from the Book of Supplications, and in: The Chapter of Offering [Islam] to the Dhimmi and others..., from the Book of Repentance of the Apostates. Sahih al-Bukhari 8/14, 71, 104, 9/20. And Muslim, in: The Chapter of the Prohibition of initiating the greeting to the People of the Book..., from the Book of Salutations, and in: The Chapter of the Virtue of Gentleness, from the Book of Righteousness. Sahih Muslim 4/1706, 2003, 2004. And Abu Dawud, in: The Chapter on Gentleness, from the Book of =