all rulings. It has also been said: Ejaculation occurs through intercourse in the vagina, even if it is not felt.
Section: On the Etiquette of Intercourse. It is recommended to mention the Name of Allah (Tasmiyah) before it, due to the saying of Allah the Exalted: {And send forth [good] for yourselves} (63). 'Ata' said: This is the Tasmiyah at the time of intercourse. Ibn 'Abbas narrated that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "If one of you, when approaching his wife, says: 'In the name of Allah, O Allah, keep us away from the Shaytan, and keep the Shaytan away from what You have provided us,' and a child is born between them, the Shaytan will never harm him." Agreed upon (64). It is disliked to be completely naked during intercourse, due to what 'Utbah ibn 'Abd (65) narrated, saying: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "When one of you approaches his wife, let him cover himself and not be naked like two donkeys," narrated by Ibn Majah (66). From 'Aishah, she said: When the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) entered the privy, he would cover his head, [and when he approached his wife, he would cover his head] (67). He should not have intercourse in a place where anyone can see them or hear their sound. He should not kiss or fondle her in the presence of people. Ahmad said: It does not please me unless he keeps all of this concealed. Al-Hasan said, regarding a man who has intercourse with his wife while another woman is listening, he said: They used to dislike it.
(63) Surah al-Baqarah 223. (64) Reported by al-Bukhari, in: The Chapter on the Tasmiyah at All Times and During Intercourse, from the Book of Wudu'; in: The Chapter on the Description of Iblis and His Hosts, from the Book of the Beginning of Creation; in: The Chapter on What a Man Should Say When Approaching His Wife, from the Book of Marriage; in: The Chapter on What One Should Say When Approaching His Wife, from the Book of Supplications; and in: The Chapter on Asking by the Names of Allah and Seeking Refuge in Them, from the Book of Tawhid. Sahih al-Bukhari 1/48, 4/149, 7/29, 30, 8/102, 103, 9/146. And Muslim, in: The Chapter on What Is Recommended to Say at the Time of Intercourse, from the Book of Marriage. Sahih Muslim 2/1058. It was also reported by Abu Dawud, in: The Chapter on the Generalities of Intercourse, from the Book of Marriage. Sunan Abi Dawud 1/498. And al-Tirmidhi, in: The Chapter on What One Should Say When Entering Upon His Wife, from the Book of Marriage. 'Aridat al-Ahwadhi 4/313. And Ibn Majah in: The Chapter on What a Man Should Say When His Wife Enters Upon Him, from the Book of Marriage. Sunan Ibn Majah 1/618. And al-Darimi, in: The Chapter on What Is Said at the Time of Intercourse, from the Book of Marriage. Sunan al-Darimi 2/145. And Imam Ahmad, in: al-Musnad 1/217, 220, 243, 283, 286. (65) In the manuscripts: "'Ubayd". The established version is from Sunan Ibn Majah. See his biography in: Tahdhib al-Tahdhib 7/98. (66) In: The Chapter on Covering Oneself During Intercourse, from the Book of Marriage. Sunan Ibn Majah 1/619. (67) Omitted from: The original. We did not find this statement attributed to 'Aishah, and the author mentioned that it is narrated from Abu Bakr that he used to cover his head when entering the privy. See what preceded in: 1/226.
الأحكامِ. وقد قيلَ: إِنَّ الوَطْءَ فى الفَرْجِ يحْصُلُ به الإِنْزالُ، ولا يُحَسُّ به.
فصل: فى آدَابِ الجِمَاعِ. تُسْتَحبُّ التَّسْمِيَةُ قبلَه؛ لقولِ اللَّهِ تعالى: {وَقَدِّمُوا لِأَنْفُسِكُمْ} (٦٣). قال عَطاءٌ: هى التَّسْمِيَةُ عند الجِماع. ورَوَى ابنُ عبَّاسٍ، قال: قال رسولُ اللَّهِ -صلى اللَّه عليه وسلم-: "لَوْ أَنَّ أَحَدَكُمْ حِينَ يَأْتِى أَهْلَهُ قَالَ: بِسْمِ اللَّهِ، اللَّهُمَّ جَنِّبْنَا الشَّيْطَانَ، وَجَنِّبِ الشَّيْطَانَ مَا رَزَقْتَنَا، فَوُلِدَ بَيْنَهُمَا وَلَدٌ، لَمْ يَضُرَّهُ الشَّيْطَانُ أَبَدًا". مُتَّفَقٌ عليه (٦٤). ويُكْرَهُ التَّجَرُّدُ عندَ المُجَامعةِ؛ لما رَوَى عُتْبَةُ بنُ عَبْدٍ (٦٥)، قال: قال رسولُ اللَّهِ -صلى اللَّه عليه وسلم-: "إِذَا أَتَى أَحَدُكُمْ أَهْلَهُ، فَلْيَسْتَتِرْ، وَلَا يتَجَرَّدْ تَجَرُّدَ الْعَيْرَيْنِ"، رواه ابنُ ماجَه (٦٦). وعن عائشةَ، قالت: كان رسولُ اللَّهِ -صلى اللَّه عليه وسلم- إذا دخلَ الخَلَاءَ غَطَّى رأسَه، [وإذا أَتَى أهلَه غطَّى رأسَه] (٦٧). ولا يُجامِعُ بحيثُ يراهُمَا أحدٌ، أو يسْمَعُ حِسَّهُما. ولا يُقَبِّلُها ويُباشِرُها عندَ النَّاسِ. قال أحمدُ: ما يعجبُنِى إلَّا أَنْ يَكْتُمَ هذا كلَّه. وقال الحسنُ، فى الذى يُجامِعُ المرأةَ، والأُخْرَى تَسْمَعُ، قال: كانوا يكْرَهونَ
(٦٣) سورة البقرة ٢٢٣.(٦٤) أخرجه البخارى، فى: باب التسمية على كل حال وعند الوقاع، من كتاب الوضوء، وفى: باب صفة إبليس وجنوده، من كتاب بدء الخلق، وفى: باب ما يقول الرجل إذا أتى أهله، من كتاب النكاح، وفى باب ما يقول إذا أتى أهله، من كتاب الدعوات، وفى: باب السؤال بأسماء اللَّه تعالى والاستعاذة بها، من كتاب التوحيد. صحيح البخارى ١/ ٤٨، ٤/ ١٤٩، ٧/ ٢٩، ٣٠، ٨/ ١٠٢، ١٠٣، ٩/ ١٤٦. ومسلم، فى: باب ما يستحب أن يقوله عند الجماع، من كتاب النكاح. صحيح مسلم ٢/ ١٠٥٨.كما أخرجه أبو داود، فى: باب فى جامع النكاح، من كتاب النكاح. سنن أبى داود ١/ ٤٩٨. والترمذى، فى: باب ما يقول إذا دخل على أهله، من كتاب النكاح. عارضة الأحوذى ٤/ ٣١٣. وابن ماجه فى: باب ما يقول الرجل إذا دخلت عليه أهله، من كتاب النكاح. سنن أبن ماجه ١/ ٦١٨. والدارمى، فى: باب القول عند الجماع، من كتاب النكاح. سنن الدارمى ٢/ ١٤٥. والإمام أحمد، فى: المسند ١/ ٢١٧، ٢٢٠، ٢٤٣، ٢٨٣، ٢٨٦.(٦٥) فى النسخ: "عبيد". والمثبت من سنن ابن ماجه. وانظر ترجمته فى: تهذيب الهذيب ٧/ ٩٨.(٦٦) فى: باب التستر عند الجماع، من كتاب النكاح. سنن ابن ماجه ١/ ٦١٩.(٦٧) سقط من: الأصل. ولم نجد قول عائشة هذا، وذكر المؤلف أنه يروى عن أبى بكر أنه كان يغطى رأسه عند دخوله الخلاء. انظر ما سبق فى: ١/ ٢٢٦.
